Services

First Step is Counselling to Try and Save the Marriage.

Counselling can help to reunite the couple. However, this is not always the case.

Divorce is ending a relationship that is no longer working.

Divorce is not failure. Sometimes it is just the end of a cycle…

fighting couple

Some men feel too ashamed to tell their friends or family, and are potentially struggling with depression whilst trying to focus on work and "keeping it all together" for everybody else.

They fear the first Shabbat as a man separated from their wife and children. Simchas and children's milestones — a Bar Mitzvah or Bat Mitzvah, especially if they are your own children. How to navigate school meetings amid a separation and divorce. And when is the right time to tell the children, and your parents, that you are divorcing?

If this is you — we understand. Whether orthodox or secular, all are welcome.

  • The first Shabbat as a man separated from his wife and children.
  • A Bar Mitzvah or Bat Mitzvah with the family in two halves.
  • School meetings in the middle of a separation.
  • Telling the children — and telling your parents.

BUT YOU ARE NOT ALONE

We are here to help.

We understand the process from both a civil and religious perspective. We can support your spiritual wellbeing as part of a Jewish community, whether you are divorcing, recently divorced, or divorced

DISCLAIMER: We are not rabbis, a Jewish Court (Beth Din) or affiliated to any religious groups.

What we offer

Our services offer a divorce checklist for Jewish men

Practical, emotional and spiritual — grouped so you can see where to start.

01

Practical guidance

  • Join a divorced men's support group that understands both the religious (the Get) and the civil divorce process
  • Avoidance of Agunah status
  • Helping you to stay focussed at work

02

Brothers who listen

  • Talk with dedicated Brothers who listen without judgement
  • Receive a dedicated main contact as your Key Brother
  • Enjoy social connection with other Brothers
  • Build personal and professional networks

03

Your children

  • How to co-parent as a divorced Jewish man
  • Strengthen co-parenting and maintain relationships with your children, including after-divorce workshops

04

Wellbeing and community

  • Understanding mental health* issues, and who can professionally support you
  • Access virtual events and talks
  • Shabbat and festivals hospitality

DISCLAIMER: *The services offered are for general purposes only. It is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Have an idea that would support our programmes?

If you have any recommendations or ideas that could help support Brother to Brother, we would love to hear from you. Please use the form on the Contact Us page. Thank you.